This question is not about how to use mutexes, but how to suspend a thread.
In Unix specification there is a thread function called pthread_suspend, and another called pthread_resume_np, but for some reason the people who make Linux, FreeBSD, NetBSD and so on have not implemented these functions.
So to understand it, the functions simply are not there. There are workarounds but unfortunately it is just not the same as calling SuspendThread on windows. You have to do all kinds of non-portable stuff to make a thread stop and start using signals.
Stopping and resuming threads is vital for debuggers and garbage collectors. For example, I have seen a version of Wine which is not able to properly implement the "SuspendThread" function. Thus any windows program using it will not work properly.
I thought that it was possible to do it properly using signals based on the fact that JVM uses this technique of signals for the Garbage collector, but I have also just seen some articles online where people are noticing deadlocks and so on with the JVM, sometimes unreproducable.
So to come around to answer the question, you cannot properly suspend and resume threads with Unix unless you have a nice Unix that implements pthread_suspend_np. Otherwise you are stuck with signals.
The big problem with Signals is when you have about five different libraries all linked in to the same program and all trying to use the same signals at the same time. For this reason I believe that you cannot actually use something like ValGrind and for example, the Boehm GC in one program. At least without major coding at the very lowest levels of userspace.
Another answer to this question could be. Do what Linuz Torvalds does to NVidia, flip the finger at him and get him to implement the two most critical parts missing from Linux. First, pthread_suspend, and second, a dirty bit on memory pages so that proper garbage collectors can be implemented. Start a large petition online and keep flipping that finger. Maybe by the time Windows 20 comes out, they will realise that Suspending and resuming threads, and having dirty bits is actually one of the fundamental reasons Windows and Mac are better than Linux, or any Unix that does not implement pthread_suspend and also a dirty bit on virtual pages, like VirtualAlloc does in Windows.
I do not live in hope. Actually for me I spent a number of years planning my future around building stuff for Linux but have abandoned hope as a reliable thing all seems to hinge on the availability of a dirty bit for virtual memory, and for suspending threads cleanly.
