public Boolean SupportsMyFeature
{
    get { return _supportsMyFeature; }
    set { if (this.IsSealed != true) _supportsMyFeature = value; } //else may want to raise exception 
}
protected override void Merge(PropertyMetadata baseMetadata, DependencyProperty dp)
{
    base.Merge(baseMetadata, dp);
    MyCustomPropertyMetadata mcpm = baseMetadata as MyCustomPropertyMetadata;
    if (mcpm != null)
    {
        if (this.SupportsMyFeature == false)
        {//if not set, revert to base
            this.SupportsMyFeature = mcpm.SupportsMyFeature;
        }
    }
}