I had similar issue because I was importing FBSDK at wrong place in AppDelegate.m
Point is you must import before #ifdef FB_SONARKIT_ENABLED
Here is the correct way:
#import "AppDelegate.h"
#import <React/RCTBridge.h>
#import <React/RCTBundleURLProvider.h>
#import <React/RCTRootView.h>
#import "FBSDKCoreKit.h" <-- IMPORT HERE! -->
#ifdef FB_SONARKIT_ENABLED
<--- DO NOT IMPORT BELOW --->
#import <FlipperKit/FlipperClient.h>
#import <FlipperKitLayoutPlugin/FlipperKitLayoutPlugin.h>
#import <FlipperKitUserDefaultsPlugin/FKUserDefaultsPlugin.h>
#import <FlipperKitNetworkPlugin/FlipperKitNetworkPlugin.h>
#import <SKIOSNetworkPlugin/SKIOSNetworkAdapter.h>
#import <FlipperKitReactPlugin/FlipperKitReactPlugin.h>
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